For the moments you feel overwhelmed

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If you’re feeling overwhelmed today, here’s one small way to begin in asking God to bring your heart peace and show you His truth.

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“Every time I get overwhelmed, I feel like I’m failing at everything.”

I offer this confession at a table full of friends as we share chips and queso. I assumed I was the only one with this mental and emotional quirk, but around me heads start nodding. All of these beautiful, smart, responsible women struggle with the same inner lie:

Feeling overwhelmed means I’m failing.

Maybe if you were at the table with us, you would have nodded too.

Overwhelm has a way of sneaking up on us. Sometimes it’s obvious—big life changes, unexpected news, or seasons of loss. But often, it’s quieter than that. It’s the slow accumulation of responsibilities, expectations, and emotions that eventually tip us past what we can carry on our own.

We live in a world that often praises doing more, being more, and holding it all together. But our souls were never designed to thrive under that kind of pressure. When we feel overwhelmed, it’s not a sign that we’re failing—it’s a signal that we’re human.

And more than that, it’s an invitation.

In Scripture, we see this tender truth: “Cast all your anxiety on him because he cares for you” (1 Peter 5:7 NIV). Not some of it. Not just the big things. All of it. The to-do list. The decisions. The relationships. The quiet worries we don’t always have words for.

God doesn’t ask us to carry what only He can hold.

When overwhelm rises, one of the first things it often takes from us is perspective. Everything starts to feel equally urgent. Equally important. Equally heavy. But God gently reminds us that not everything belongs in our hands.

Jesus is still saying to our hearts, “Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest” (Matthew 11:28 NIV). Notice he doesn’t say, “Come to me once you’ve figured it out.” Or, “Come to me after you’ve gotten everything under control.” He simply says, come.

We have responsibilities in our lives—people we love, work we care about, choices we need to make. But we were never meant to carry the weight of outcomes, expectations, or perfection. That kind of ownership belongs to God.

So what does it look like to live differently?

It begins with a small shift—not in our circumstances, but in our posture. Instead of gripping tightly to everything that feels urgent, we open our hands. We name what’s in them. We offer it back to God.

Sometimes that looks like a whispered prayer in the middle of a busy day: God, this is too much for me. I need your help.

Sometimes it looks like choosing to do the next right thing instead of trying to do everything at once.

Sometimes it means letting something go—not because it doesn’t matter, but because you matter too.

God meets us right there, in the middle of the mess and the fullness and the feelings we wish we didn’t have. He doesn’t rush us. He doesn’t shame us. He gently reminds us: You don’t have to carry this alone.

If you’re feeling overwhelmed today, here’s one small way to begin:

Take a moment to pause and write down what you’re carrying right now. All of it. Big or small. Then release everything and everyone to God. Choose one small step to take, remembering you’re already succeeding just by saying “yes” to the next thing He is inviting you to do.

You are not behind. You are not failing. You are a beloved daughter walking through a full life who’s deeply cared for in every moment—especially the ones when you feel overwhelmed.

 

A black and white portrait of DaySpring contributing author Holley Gerth.

Holley Gerth is a Wall Street Journal bestselling author, counselor and life coach. Her newest release is “365 Truths for Every Woman's Heart”. She's also wife to Mark, mom to Lovelle, and nana to Eula and Clem. Find her work at www.holleygerth.com.